Memorial Day Theme Ideas

Whether you’re planning a laid-back hangout, a mini getaway, or just looking for a reason to switch up your routine, there are plenty of fun and meaningful ways to make Memorial Day fun for everyone while still holding space for what the day represents. Here are some fresh themes and ideas for your Memorial Day celebration. 

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Backyard BBQ Cookout

A photo showing a family celebrating Memorial Day with a Backyard BBQ Cookout

You can’t go wrong with a backyard BBQ get-together. You can grill burgers, hot dogs, or ribs, and round it out with a few solid sides and drinks. Once that’s set, add décor (of course, in patriotic colors) to pull everything together. 

Tip: Make sure there are enough lawn chairs for everyone! 

Red, White, and Blue Dessert Party 

Friends and family having a blue, white, and red dessert party

Already did a BBQ party last year? Why not have a dessert party? Instead of focusing only on color, aim for a mix of desserts that are easy to serve and share. Include a variety of options, such as sheet cakes, cookies, cupcakes, and lighter options like berry trifles or popsicles. You tie everything together with red (strawberries,  raspberries), white (whipped cream or custard), and blue touches using fresh berries.

Tip: Prep the desserts ahead of time so you have more time to enjoy the day.

DIY Patriotic Photo Booth 

Friends and family inside a patriotic photo booth 

Another great option for your Memorial Day party is to make a DIY patriotic photo booth. Start with a simple backdrop like a sheet, curtain, or even hanging frames from a tree, then dress it up with red, white, and blue ribbons, streamers, or flowers to make it pop.

Get some chairs or stools to make different levels, and then add fun props like hats, sunglasses, mustaches, or little flags on sticks. It doesn’t have to be fancy; it just needs to be fun enough to get even your guests who don’t like to be photographed to pose. 

Red, White, and Blue Table Setup

Photo showing a table setup for Memorial Day celebration

Hosting a dinner or brunch? Make sure to set the table with red, white, and blue colors. Start with a simple base like a striped or neutral tablecloth. Then add colorful plates, napkins, and seasonal flowers. To make it even more eye-catching, mix and match textures. For example, use woven placemats, linen napkins, and small red accents, such as straws or floral centerpieces. 

Water Balloon Fight 

A water balloon fight can be a lot of fun in the summer, and with some planning, it can be the main event of your Memorial Day party. Pick a safe, open area like a park or a grassy yard, and make sure everyone knows the rules so they can have fun. Make sure you have plenty of balloons on hand (in red, white, and blue, of course). 

Classic Game Tournament 

Your Memorial Day gathering can also turn into a friendly competition by having a lineup of classic outdoor games. Set up stations for favorites like cornhole, horseshoes, frisbee tic-tac-toe, or even a backyard “cone golf” challenge, and divide guests into teams for a mini tournament. Give the winning team small prizes or a silly trophy, like a star-spangled hat or a decorated megaphone. Of course, don’t forget to add a patriotic touch. You can have color-coded gear, themed scoreboards, or fun team names. 

Stars & Stripes Picnic

A photo showing a family having a Memorial Day picnic

You can make the picnic simple with classic all-American fare like burgers, hot dogs, fried chicken, or hero sandwiches, plus easy sides like potato salad, coleslaw, or pasta salad. 

For dessert, serve watermelon, feta, and blueberries in a flag pattern, mini berry cobblers, or a make-ahead patriotic trifle layered with berries, lemon curd, and whipped cream. Also, don’t forget to hydrate your guests with a “Land of the Free Lemonade”, which is watermelon, lemonade, and blueberries, with optional citrus vodka for adults. 

Patriotic Cocktails and Mocktails

Photo showing cocktails and mocktails for Memorial Day celebrations

How about drinks? You can make a Mixed Berry Mojito, Berry Moscato Sangria, Blueberry Lemon Drop Martini, or a layered Red, White, and Blue Pina Colada, and even patriotic pudding shots!

Non-alcoholic options are just as fun. You can serve layered mocktails, sparkling punches, or fruit-filled ice cubes for a red, white, and blue splash everyone can enjoy. Use fresh berries, citrus, and aromatics to boost flavor, then add garnishes like umbrellas or straws for a festive look. 

Tip: Consider a DIY mocktail spot so guests can mix their own creations. 

Patriotic Baking Contest 

Having a friendly baking contest is also an excellent activity during Memorial Day. Ask your guests to bring red, white, and blue snacks, like berry parfaits, chocolate-covered strawberries, or even simple no-bake desserts that anyone can make. Make sure to have categories like “Most Creative” or “Crowd Favorite” to make it even more exciting and fun for everyone. 

Watch a Patriotic Film 

Another great Memorial Day activity is to watch a patriotic film. If you don’t know where to start, pick movies that show different points of view. For example, American Sniper shows service from a personal perspective, Hacksaw Ridge shows bravery and conviction, and Saving Private Ryan shows brotherhood and sacrifice. 

Star-Spangled Pool Party 

Photo of friends and family having a memorial-day themed pool party

A star-spangled pool party is one of the easiest and most fun ways to kick off summer while bringing everyone together. And to get ready for Memorial Day, you just need to decorate with red, white, and blue décor, add some flags, and themed floats. And that’s it! 

Final Thoughts  

And there you have it! Memorial Day is more than just the start of summer. It’s time to get together with loved ones, make memories, and reflect. So, pick the right mix of fun and meaningful activities to really enjoy and honor this day.